I'm unemployed. I have worked since I was 15 years old and now I find myself unemployed. The depression has been held at bay for a while now thanks to a nice mixture of anti-depressants and my circumstances have settled down. I no longer live with B and have been on my own for almost a year now. I took a full time job that I hated and I fucked that up and now I am unemployed and losing my mind. Suddenly my mood has taken a turn for the worst and I have been struggling with that lack of pleasure again.
I don't like job hunting. It isn't easy for someone like me who isn't particularly outgoing to do well in a job interview. I feel like everyone wants someone who is cheery and personable and I am not feeling much like that these days. I try to fake it but I think they can tell. They must be able to tell because I haven't gotten any of the jobs that I have interviewed for.
The stress of not knowing where my next pay day is coming from is difficult. I am lucky in that I live upstairs from my parents so they understand that I don't have rent money for them but they really need the money. It causes me stress because I know that they need the money and they want to help me which makes me feel guilty. Additionally, I don't have money for anything extra. No going to lunch or going shopping. I have been living off my meager savings and that isn't going to last for very much longer. Something has got to give. I don't want to have to go and apply for public assistance but if I don't find a job in the very near future I am going to have to do just that. And then I will be one of those people.
I don't know if adjusting my medications will help me at all. I don't think that my recent mood has anything to do with anything other than my circumstances. I wish there was a magic pill that would put me in a good mood because that would surely help with my job hunt. But I think I am going to have to struggle to will myself out of this rut that I am in. I have to be better. For my daughter who doesn't understand what is going on. I have to try to find pleasure in the little things again. Because that is the only thing that is going to keep me going.
